Sorry guys that I didn't post last night. I decided to watch the DaVinci Code! Not bad ... but no where near as good as the book. That's my "Siskel & Ebert" for the day
Yesterday was an ice day, so Ciaran was able to accompany me to the hospital. He was very bright, thrilled to report he'd number 1'd and number 2'd, and said that he was allowed to go outside. Much as I love my son, I do realize that he has been delusional recently. The nurse confirmed ... with a big smile ... that he could go downstairs and even outside!
I was like the mum of a two year old ... do you have to pee ... do you have to poo ... before putting on a snowsuit. Don't want these bodily functions to interrupt our adventure.
As I reported previously, Conor is unplugged. So it was just a matter of getting him up and into the wheelchair. No small matter ... except that Conor was in a hurry. Huddled up in sheets and blankets ... his bad leg secured to the chair with a tensor bandage ... the nurses clucking like mother hens themseleves ... off we go. Happily, I have little experience in the wheelchair driving department ... and Conor let me know it! With his bad leg leading the way, we headed off down the hall to the elevator. Down the elevator we go ... with the great outdoors beckoning. Conor is radiating expectation. The doors open ... and Conor takes his first breath of fresh air in 13 days. The ice pellets assault his face ... but he doesn't care. He is out of the hospital! Almost as rapturous as that popsicle.
I convince him to come inside (cause my face is being assaulted by pellets too!) and down the hall we go for a hot chocolate at Second Cup. He is clearly exhausted ... but determined to stay away from his room as long as possible.
What a day! Back to the room we go. The nurses are there waiting for us with grins on their faces. We get him back into bed (Ciaran and small nurse the only assistance required), set up the DVD player with "Remember the Titans", and Ciaran and I leave him alone to savour that breath of fresh air!
He is doing so well. Each day shows improvement in his speech and his cognitive ability. He still has problems with today ... so a plea here. When you visit Conor ... please ask him the day of the week, the date, how old he is, where he is. Is he gonna get sick of these questions ... you betcha! Tough noogies!
Tonight, I think I will be going to the LCBO Christmas party for a couple of hours. It is required on a variety of levels. Prior to the accident, Conor and I had planned to go. That Conor didn't want to escort his mum to a party was clear...I said to Conor last night that he went a little overboard in trying to get out of it! Conor has given me permission to skip my visit tonight (to be honest I feel quite extraneous in the evenings with all his friends visiting).
Keep those prayers and good wishes coming! This miraculous recovery is due in no small part to all your positive energy (and a bit of skill on the part of the health professionals). Give yourselves all a pat on the back ... without you ... we would not be where we are today!
Saturday, December 2, 2006
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4 comments:
Hi Rose. You make me laugh. You really should write a book. I can't imagine how Conor felt when he was able to go outside. That is so great!!!! Everyday just gets better for him, as well as for you and Ciaran. Have fun at the party tonight. Relax and enjoy yourself. Your boy is in good hands. Love you all.
Diane (Auntie) xoxo
So great to hear how amazing he is doing! Recovery is will power, and Conor appears to have loads of it!
Rose, don't forget that YOU have also played a vital role in this journey. Your strength and endless hours of support have helped Conor continue to make such a fast and eventful recovery!
Keep up the wicked work Conor! Soon you'll be up for that visit <3
Chantal <33
Yay! He finally went out from the hospital. It's something that he should really be proud of. More than a week, he hasn't been out. I can't imagine that!
We all prayed that he'll be fine, but you were the one that was there the whole time to take care of him. He is in good hands and it's all because of you! <33
Amen to being outside.
Savour that air.
If I could be outside 12 months of the year I would be.
I dont know if Conor remembers but I constantly talk of my family and camping all summer.
If I could be in one of my campers or a tent 12 months of the year I would.
Perhaps when Conor is up and about he should feel welcome to join us anytime.
I can see what a fine responsible young man he is.
Mike and Rose have done a great job of raising him.
If I can do as great a job with my two children (Jenna and Stewart) I will be proud.
ROSE ,please be aware there is a large # of guys who love Conor who wont be at the Christmas party because of issues untold.
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